'The home is a safe space from which you can go out into the world and be a warrior'
-Rick Rubin
My Objective
Hello! I am Lolade Ajai, founder and principal designer at Lolade Ajai Interior Design.
Through my project, The Perimenopause Playbook, I offer neuroscience-informed interior design solutions tailored to support women’s cognitive health during perimenopause and postmenopause. My mission is to help women reclaim agency and live fulfilling lives through thoughtful, nurturing spaces that inspire growth during this transformative phase.
Let’s demystify perimenopause and embrace it as a powerful time for reinvention.
About Me
As a perimenopausal woman experiencing neuroendocrinological changes that affect both my physical and mental well-being, I have been thinking about how my environment - both at home and at work - can be adjusted to support my cognitive health.
As my understanding of the intricate relationship between the brain, body and environment deepens, I have come to realise that certain environmental triggers influence how the brain responds to, and regulates our physiological state, activating either the sympathetic (fight or flight) or parasympathetic (rest and digest) nervous systems.
One of the most challenging aspects of my work is creating effective design protocols for my clients.
I have drawn inspiration from renowned figures such as Le Corbusier, a neurodiverse architect who prioritised supportive spaces. In the last six or seven years, architects such as Thomas Heatherwick, who integrates emotional and ergonomic elements into his designs, and Peter Zumthor, known for the iconic Therme Vals in Switzerland, have also profoundly influenced my approach to design.
My focus shifted to neuroscience-based interior design because our brain's interpretation of the environment has a significant impact on our endocrine responses, especially as ovarian function begins to decline. Rigorous research has shown that there is an ongoing dialogue between the brain and the ovaries throughout a woman's reproductive cycle, with each stage subtly altering brain function.
Research also shows that throughout evolution, our ancestors were hardwired to scan for threats. Today, our brains continue to analyse environmental cues to determine whether we should be at rest or in a heightened state of alertness.
This understanding makes it clear that interior design plays a vital role in supporting cognitive health by fostering environments that promote relaxation and well-being rather than stress and anxiety.
My motivation for creating The Perimenopause Playbook stems from my passion for designing spaces that enhance wellbeing. For years I have been driven by the desire to create environments that are not only aesthetically pleasing, but also functional and supportive of those who inhabit them.
When I entered perimenopause myself, I recognised a deeper need within this stage of life - one that went beyond traditional interior design. I began to explore how thoughtful design could support my mental health - leading to a personal journey that illuminated the powerful connection between environment and well-being during this transition.
Inspired by my own experiences, I felt a strong urge to share what I had learned. I realised that there was a significant gap in resources for women navigating perimenopause and postmenopause, particularly in relation to how their environment affects their mental and emotional health. This insight inspired me to create The Perimenopause Playbook - a platform dedicated to providing women with practical, research-based guidance on designing spaces that meet their unique needs during this critical time.
Through The Perimenopause Playbook, I aim to build a community where women can share their experiences and feel empowered by the environments they create. My ultimate goal is to provide resources that help women feel supported, understood and uplifted, transforming their homes into sanctuaries for health, wellbeing and growth.
Why Lolade Ajai Interior Design?
You want a designer who understands your design needs who, through proven scientific research and intuition, designs functional and fabulous solutions for your space - leveraging over 10 years of experience on a wide range of projects - who can offer you the most creative, functional, and intuitive solutions to your design needs with beautiful results.
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